Moderate Alcohol Use

1.Parents have no time 2.Grandpas or grandmas try to control 3.Boys without telling any body they go for having drinks 4.Some time grandpa asks them but they say going for study 5.Grandma/grandpa being old enough can not control boys

Parents should control their children

lately i just cant stop. ill know that ive hit my limit, and should probably stop and then 3 minutes later ill be chasing after the bottle.

Try drinking water as well. When you think you’re really drunk, just drink a few classes of water, that will also help you not be so hungover the next day. That’s what I do.

Try filling up your empty beers with water, that way it looks like you’re drinking, and you don’t have to tell anyone you’re not drinking alcohol anymore, but if they ask, tell them the truth or else you’ll look stupid.

Everytime I start drinking…I can’t stop…I don’t want to quit drinking because I love it….but I also don’t want to be sloshed everytime I go out somewhere or hang with friends….any advice?

side note…I may be an alcoholic.

Best to go out and do all your business when you are badly hung over. That is the time you are least likely want to drink. Otherwise you sound pretty well adjusted and on top of things.

I want to drink, it’s fun and makes me feel great. I’m not escaping anything or using it to deal with problems. I like the taste and like the fun atmosphere of it with friends. But most of the time when drinking I’m one of the crazy drunks that go… well, crazy. People tell me I’m just not a drinker and I should stop, but I honestly don’t want to. I just want to learn control. Or maybe it’s just a mental thing and I can easily do it?

No, you generally don’t "learn control". Most of the people I know who used to "go crazy" as you put it, and who now don’t, used to binge drink as a choice, and have now stopped, as a choice.
If you are at the moment basically drinking until you can’t drink anymore, then you’re showing signs of having a problem. Maybe try going out and limiting yourself to, for example, four drinks. If you can do this, then you are able to control yourself, if you can’t then you have a problem.

I get really bad stomach pains while i am drinking alcohol.. it is really annoying and didnt used to happen to me.. If i take tums will this help with the stomach pains?
but later on when i lay down i start to get gasy and then feel better

See you doctor and take the time to describe these symptoms. Doctors drink too. He will understand and take a close look at your symptoms. It is just not worth your health or worth your risk of getting worse with complications. Caring for yourself is an investment in your future and actually it costs less to take care of it now that to wait and spend thousands in a hospital. Get to the doctor and drop the tums fix.

I’ve tried drinking Malibu and Vodka straight to get a nice buzz going quickly,but both made me very sick. I find i can only drink beer and control my limits with it but it takes ages for me to get drunk/tipsy. I want a nice buzz going quickly but something thats not gonna make me heave as soon as i put it in my mouth or smell it?

White or red martini and lemonade - refreshing tastes good and creeps up on you slowly but makes the buzz well worth it.
Let me know how things go x 1 x

I’ve been over seas in other countries and found that alot of people over there drink, but very few of them drink "Alot". Whereas over here, you don’t have to look far to find someone passed out, or driving recklessly behind the wheel. Why do you suppose that is? And if Europeans can be such responsible drinkers, why can’t we?
uhhhhh…. It looks like I may have asked this question in the wrong section. Oh well! Feel free to answer.

Same reason why we have more trouble controlling our eating.

simple question. if you dont know when to stop should you even start? just want opinions.

No. People with issues of self control should never use addictive substances.

not like keep yourself from being wild but like .. how do you know exactly what your doing so you dont do anything stupid?

For every drink you have drink a glass of water. Also, when you decide to drink bring a friend that will be the non drinking designated driver.Or stay where you are partying at. I mean spend the night. Do not drink and then take off and drink somewhere else. Stay in one spot. That will lower the risks of doing something dumb like DUI or acting stupid. Drink that water…

I was just wondering this because in the warning section it talks about smoking but not alcohol. I just wanted to know if anyone knew if drinking alcohol while your taking birth control effects it?
I know it impairs judgement I just want to know if my pill wont work because of it.

No alcohol shouldn’t effect your birth control the only thing that I know of that effects your birth control is antibiotics